Resistance meets resistance

  When resistance to hearing or changing meets resistance to hearing or changing there can be only one result: conflict.  Sometimes that resistance sounds to our inner dialog as simply attempting to get our very correct position understood.  Regardless of the motivation, the more we press our point, the more often we repeat our position,…

Complaints

We have spoken about gossip, haven’t we?  If not we shall soon.  Right now I want to discuss gossips next door neighbor: complaints.  Complaints can have the same corrosive effect on our relationships as gossip.  Does this mean we are to accept whatever comes our way without questioning?  Of course not.  What makes one complaint corrosive and…