Comparing you to me

Do we learn to compare ourselves to others, or is it an in-born trait?  Perhaps you were told “I wish you were more like your sister”, or “look at Johnny, he managed to get his homework in on time.” I guess that might lead me to believe somewhere along the line we were trained to identify our…

It’s Impossible

What is impossible?  In my world nothing is impossible, it just has perhaps not yet come about.  It was once common knowledge that it was impossible for a man to fly.  Not that long ago the idea I could sit here in my office and type a message which could be read all over the world…

Let’s rehearse your troubles

OK, let’s begin the rehearsal.  Let’s say you have planned a flight  across the country. What if the plane is not on schedule?  What if you are late, will the rental car be there?  What if it is snowing when you get there.  What if your bags get lost, what are you going to do?  What if there is turbulence in flight, will…

It’s not you, it’s me

This line has been used so often it is now considered a joke, but if you have been following my blogs you know there is great truth in this statement. When we reach the point in any relationship, be a work relationship, a personal relationship, or a family relationship, when the existing balance no longer serves…

Chattering Monkeys

There is nothing holding me back from experiencing full and complete success at anything my heart desires.  Yes there is, there are a thousand reasons for me not to succeed, no there is not, just last week I read this thing that said, never mind what it said, that was not you, yes it is, no it…