Grounding

What is “grounding”? Grounding is a process whereby your soul and your spirit are balanced.  When you are grounded life moves so much more smoothly; irritations are fewer, discord is felt less, relationships are more fulfilling and you feel you have a real place in this world.  As with most things which have to do with…

I told you so!

Want to really run a relationship into the ground?  Say “I told you so.”  It really doesn’t matter if you were completely right, saying “I told you so” is a relationship being killed slowly. No one likes being reminded they made an error, so the response, be it spoken or unspoken, is uniformly negative. The question you get to ask…

You’re Right

Despite the seemingly prevailing view, saying “you’re right” does not automatically mean “I’m wrong.”  Saying you’re right simply means we see the other persons viewpoint and find something worthwhile there.  If we are in the middle of a discussion about how to drive somewhere and find the other person’s idea of the route is more…